The easiest thing in the world is to talk shit. We’re all good at it, especially when people have wronged us. Or you know, we feel wronged.
For me, talking shit about an ex is easy. Why? Because normally with an ex, they’ve done me wrong. And when you’re hurt – at least me – I react with focusing on the ways that I dislike them. I mean, sure, it’s not the best way to react, but a girl with a heart that’s hurt is a volatile one.
Khloe Kardashian was on The Drew Barrymore show and talked about why she doesn’t talk badly about her exes.
“I can’t take the credit. I have first my parents, my mom, my dad and my stepdad, that trilogy was just like the ultimate because what they embedded in us and what they showed us, and I don’t think I understood how mature and respectful and loving my three parents were until you put yourself in a similar situation,” Khloe said about the way she grew up. Her parents co-parented her and her siblings. “My dad and stepdad, I’m sure it definitely wasn’t easy at first, the first couple of years I don’t even know if they spoke to one another.”
“We didn’t know that because they never talked poorly about one another to us but of course it was a challenge for my mom to remarry, I’m sure it was a challenge for my dad with all that but eventually my dad would come over once a week for family dinners and my dad and my stepdad would play golf with one another about once a week and my dad was over every Christmas and so I have them as examples,” she continued. “Then I have my sister Kourtney and I still call him my brother Scott, so many great examples that I don’t think we allow one another than do anything less and we get to learn from one another.”
I am sure that it’s not always easy, but it does set a good example. I think it’s something that we all could learn. It goes back to treating people with kindness, something we could all learn to do better.
Do you talk shit about an ex? Or are you good about not talking bad about them?
The last season of Keeping Up With The Kardashians is airing now on E!.