Who doesn’t love… LOVE? Well, me, but that’s okay. I love hearing about it and seeing everyone happy and having something to be all meh about.
I have to admit, Shawn Mendes and his need to discuss his relationship with Camila Cabello all the time, has me kinda bored. Sure there is a part of me that loves to learn about any celebrities relationship, but also like – isn’t there more to a person than their significant other?
Just call me bitter today.
However, Shawn has been changed by his relationship with Camila and he talked all about it on Dax Shepard‘s Armchair Expert podcast. He talked about how Camila helped him with his feelings.
“I think people are really quick to just say, ‘Well, he’s an artist so he gets a pass to be vulnerable and a pass to cry but most men shouldn’t,’” Shawn said. “Guys need to just be vulnerable. We need to cry. Stop thinking this is being brave and strong and start thinking is the opposite, actually. We’re holding in these emotions and not crying and being assholes. Nothing about that is nice.”
“I’m in a relationship where my girlfriend is like, ‘We’re going to get in bed and you’re going to put your head on my chest and you’re going to cry into my chest. You’re going to tell me how you feel because if you don’t do that you’re just going to be an asshole for the next week and I’m not going to deal with that shit,’” he continued. “I’m just lucky to be in a relationship that’s for it.”
These two are adorbs, I will give them that. We admire the fact that he’s willing to listen and be open with her. He’s willing to be vulnerable and that’s always scary.
I guess, when I stop being a bitter bitch I realize that he is helping others by being open with his feelings.
And that I can admire.