Boundaries for ones self and for those around you is not always an easy thing. As a matter of fact – it’s definitely a hard thing. Most of us have a hard time figuring out who we are and what we want.
But we all seem to think that as we get older, that will change. The reality is that things don’t really get less complicated with age, because you as a person are always growing. And these friends are growing, evolving, and becoming who they are meant to be.
Just because they are in their 30’s does not mean that they know everything. Hell, it’s just a new stage of life beginning.
THE TABLE SHOWDOWN
Mad respect for Jules and Wes that they are sitting down and talking about how things are. Hell, when a person is sexually frustrated, a lot of times you’ll give in to most anything. But Jules is standing her ground and isn’t about to do something she’ll regret.
She asks about how his ex, Lucy, broke her hand and wants to understand why she’s moving back in. Wes feeds some lines and Jules is falling for it. Girl, don’t do it.
It’s a great thing to ask questions and make sure you are educated on a situation. No one wants to be the other woman and hey, lets be honest, 1 and 1 is not equaling two here.
Wes is answering all of her questions, like a charming shit. He’s flashing all of the googlie eyes and making sure that she knows that he wants to kiss her. But also telling her that it’s okay that they aren’t physical, because he just wants to see her and spend time with her.
Luckily Lucy calls before they start kissing, stopping Jules from making a huge mistake. Lucy apparently fell in the bathtub and is hurt. He still tries to kiss Jules before leaving and she’s like go, woman on the floor.
Ugh, you can’t help but want Jules to be happy, but you definitely want her to make better choices.
What I don’t understand is why Jules is so against a DIY situation. She seems to think it’s like a bad thing. She can’t wrap her head around watching porn, she can’t wrap her head around bringing her body to life by herself.
Just when I thought that Jules was doing better and being there for herself, she falls into bed with Wes.
We were rooting for you Jules. We were rooting for you.
THE BIG PITCH
Izzy and Liam are in a world all their own and we’re not against it. But what is weird is how they don’t see that working together can be a bad thing. Personally, they seem to be wonderful together. And we are good with that.
But neither one of them seem to be mature enough to handle anything complicated. Do I love that have each other? Yes. But their want to work together involves more than just them and that is an issue. They are bringing others into it and they have to be the bad guy.
And again, this isn’t okay.
See, Celeste wants Izzy to go through Jules for the pitch, but Izzy won’t even tell Jules what it is. And what is so unfair is that she thinks that just because Jules is her friend, she’s going to say yes.
But life doesn’t work that way. If anything it makes me think that Izzy is more selfish for not respecting Jules.
I mean when this presentation comes around, it is so bad that my mouth dropped on the floor. Like how either one of them – Liam or Izzy through that this would be a product for the masses, like na. Basically it’s pheromone spray for when you’re having unexpected sex.
And when Jules tells her no, Izzy gets mad and disrespects her even more and sends the pitch deck to Celeste even though Jules passed.
SMASH THE…
Look, there is no judgement here about sleeping with someone. There has been sexual tension between Liv and Stella since they met.
We’ve been excited to see how these two get along and how the renovation goes.
Their first job – to tear down a wall. But taking the sledgehammer to the wall leads to them smashing out their sexual tension. Sleeping with someone that you work with can make things complicated, but hey, it’s not unheard of to get through it.
When with her friends, Stella tells them that she fucked Liv. They all try to be supportive, but Stella wants their honest opinion. And of course they remind her that it can be complicated.
Stella’s always been the one to be like whatever about sex. But when Liv is whatever about it, doesn’t want to talk about it, Stella is thrown. She wants to talk about it. She wants to be the one in charge. She wants to be wanted.
MADISONS ONLY FAN
Can we all agree that Madison is uptight? Cause she is. Girl can be an overachiever and that’s cool – but she needs to let go a little bit.
She’s trying to start her own business and whereas anyone can understand that she wants to be selective about clients, what Madison needs to do is stop being so judgemental.
Not everyone is the same and to be honest just because you are on Only Fans doesn’t mean you are into porn. Madison needs to open her mind to the world around her and see that people are innovative and to be honest, this Lotus Dragon person is a better business woman than most of us. She’s making six figures and she’s known.
Madison needs to take the meeting.
But when she takes the meeting, Madison is judgy. She wants to change the girl versus enhancing who she is. And that judgement is something that no one needs. Madison isn’t perfect, but she acts like others are beneath her. Truly I don’t think that she means for it to be that way.
But an outsider telling her that was a rude awakening for her. The friends tried to make her see that she needs to prove that she’s more than just a first impression.
Did anyone think that Madison could pull off a sexy dance class? Nope. Not at all. But then when her friends show up to support her, I am like maybe. Support can change anyone.
Friendship is like that. You can fight and argue, but at the end of the day it’s the moments of being there. It doesn’t change no matter how old you get.
And hey, it helped Madison get the client, which is the most important thing for her right now. Madison needed a bump in seeing that she’s worth more than she believes herself to be.
OTHER THOUGHTS
- Izzy and her one liners, I feel like yes, she’s funny. But someones gotta make her grow up.
- Stella is the literal best at not giving a fuck so seeing her give a fuck is scary.
- Jules never having pleasured herself, oh lordy. I don’t understand why people feel like a shame in it. It’s natural. Life is sometimes a DIY situation.
- The Cat Lady and the pussy joke – I died.
- Jules telling Izzy that she’ll ask Celeste to give her more responsibility – I don’t really know what to say.
- Stella being human… groundbreaking
Season 2 of Dollface is streaming now on Netflix.