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For a film calling itself the “First Ever Holiday Rom-Com for LGBTQ+ Women” Season of Love by Tello Films has a multitude of problems that need to be addressed not later, but now! Because Season of Love ISN’T the “First Ever Holiday Rom-Com for LGBTQ+ Women.” It isn’t even the second one, and the fact that this movie tries to erase the great work of the queer community that came before them, is disrespectful and tragic for a company who prides itself as being inclusive. We’re here, we’re queer, and we’re not going to be satisfied with lies when it comes to the queer content we consume this holiday season. Because make no mistake,I want my LGBTQ this holiday season. But I don’t want it like this.
1. Not the first LGBQT+ holiday film
But “they’re the first ever rom-com for LGBTQ+ women” you say. So? LezBomb is a holiday rom com starring LGBTQ+ women. We Need a Little Christmas has an extensively queer and POC characters in a holiday film. And don’t even get me started on Holiday Help Desk. Just because it’s a short doesn’t mean that it gets to be ignored for a film claiming to be the “First Ever Holiday Rom-Com for LGBTQ+ Women.” Season of Love is not the first and we’re happy to welcome it into the family of queer holiday rom-coms that have made it possible for Season of Love to be so widely accepted and celebrated as one of many holiday rom coms for the LGBTQ+ community.
2. It’s taking the easy way out when it comes to diversity
This makes me think about the women and queer cast & crew behind the scenes. Are they as painfully white as this cast? Was there no one around that could give them some tips on how to write, play, or present queer women of color on our screens? Cuz from where I’m standing, Season of Love is trying to paint itself as this valiant and awe inspiring effort of storytelling for the queer community without actually being diverse in front of the camera or behind it. And the moments they are diverse, like hiring a deaf actress to play a deaf character, just makes them look even worse for not hiring more queer actors in the first place because they WERE capable of doing so but decided not to.
3. They couldn’t find more queer actresses for this “iconic” film?
Why? Because we know how special it is to see ourselves in the content we consume and you damn well better believe we, as POC would contribute and speak our minds to create something truly inclusive and beautiful.
We want the queer content we consume to feel real, and like it comes from a place of honestly. And that’s what happens when you hire people that are part of the community and have dedicated themselves to representing the community on the big screen. But there were no queer actors around? Hogwash to the moon and back. The queer talent is out there and Hollywood and all it’s companions like Tello Films need to stop living behind the excuse of, “Well, I didn’t find any queer actors” or “I can’t ask them if they’re queer or not.” The talent is out there people and it MATTERS so damn much when companies take the time to do an actual search for queer talent.
4. It erases the work of women of color
Stop calling yourself the “First Ever Holiday Rom-Com for LGBTQ+ Women.” You’re not. Call yourself “A Holiday Rom-Com for LGBTQ+ Women,” because that’s what you are. Not the first one, the second one, hell, even the third one. And that’s ok. It’s not like people aren’t going to enjoy Season of Love. They will because we’re so used to getting scraps that we will watch anything that comes our way. But if it means we ignore the work done by women of color, then we aren’t here for it. We get enough of that shit when people forget about Anissa Pierce on Black Lightning for Ruby Rose’s Batwoman, like the latter is the first lesbian superhero (she isn’t) and we’re done standing silent or idly by.
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